I realize this is marginally backward, but being allowed to maintain my list of rules as such allows me to refresh my memory of each of my active rules whenever a new habit between us develops, and it’s a good reminder that I wholeheartedly agree to follow each rule (otherwise it wouldn’t have made it onto the list!). Because these are based on the “I am Willing to…” list that I made for my dominant a while back, they are written from me to her. Below I have placed the current set of rules that I follow. The one aspect that has remained is that there are always conditions or clauses in my rules that allow for the fact that I do have to exist in the world outside of my own home. Sadly I no longer have the original list because as time passed, certain rules took precedence, others fell away entirely, and many modified or morphed into something else. At her encouragement, I developed a list of things that I would be willing to do in order to please her. It also consisted of rules that I could follow on the days that I worked as well as the days that I was at home.Īfter following my rules for several weeks I had come to the decision that I enjoyed following the directions that I’d been given and I wouldn’t mind giving her more control over my daily routines and habits. (Hands are ok).Īs I mentioned, the nice thing about the ruleset was that it allowed me a lot of leeways while I decided whether or not I could be happy following instructions. I want you to write my name or our names on some part of your body every day.Įvery day, when I wake up I would like an email telling me what you are going to wear that day and the name placement. If the red set is not clean, the tan or pink set is ok, if none of them are clean time to go commando again! Even if you have already done so once that week. Once a week you will wear your red panty/bra set. If I ask you to go commando you will do and that will count as your once a week. They are copied and pasted directly from the document that my partner gave me, so they’re written from her to me: I have incorporated them into this article so that you can see how, although intimate, these rules aren’t obtrusive or overbearing. After a lot of consideration on my partner’s part, I was given five very easy rules to integrate into my daily routine. My partner did a wonderful job scouring the internet for ideas of rules to give me, but in the end, it seemed that a lot of rules she found were for 24/7 slaves or submissives, and this was neither realistic for us nor something I was ready to commit to without some serious consideration and reflection on whether or not I could enjoy submitting on a smaller scale. The trouble was that I had no idea what sort of rules I was actually after add to that my full-time job as a high school teacher and the fact that I live a long way from my partner, my lifestyle didn’t seem to be very conducive for committing myself to rules. Having only a vague notion of what D/s is, I approached my partner with the idea that she could make up rules for me to follow throughout the day that would (I had hoped) make me feel closer to her on a physical level. It had come out in the past that both of us had at least some interest in the D/s dynamic-or at the very least in some elements of BDSM, and as the date that we’d set for our first meeting crept closer, I began to play with the ideology of using D/s to bring our relationship into a physical plane. My partner and I had known each other for about two years and had been dating long distance for a little over a year Neither of us has been in a serious relationship before and as we had not yet met outside of Skype video calls, we were very slowly feeling our way around our commitment to each other. My submissive journey began a little stranger than most. Regardless, it was difficult to find any information about balancing my professional life with my submissive desires, so this article is dedicated to the people who, like me, wish to explore the D/s relationship dynamic and continue to work in the professional world. The last thing that I wanted was to have to give up my job-likewise, however, I didn’t want to pass up the opportunity to explore a budding interest because of my work environment. Because of the latter portion of my responsibilities, I was hesitant in wanting to explore the D/s dynamic. As a submissive who balances my full-time employment with my submissive role, one of my chief concerns will always be finding a way to please my dominant while maintaining a strong professional image outside of the home. When you’re working full time in a professional field, the desire to submit can be impeded by a good number of obstacles.
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